Jealousy is something that makes us feel uncomfortable. But why do we still feel jealous when we know that jealousy would hurt our feelings?

In fact, jealousy is a sense that a person is very valuable for us. However, excessive jealousy can make people do things that were not true. So jealous are often interpreted in a negative.

It is normal when we have a love relationship with someone then we will consider that the relationship is "just between us and our partners". Therefore, when there is the presence of a third party, moreover if that third person is close to our spouse (even just as friends), it appears that emotion called jealousy. The closer a person relationships, then jealousy would be increased. Just our true love that will determine how we will overcome the jealousy.
Usually people who have a selfish personality and people who love your spouse because lust is a person who has a great jealousy and explosive.

We as humans will never be able to avoid jealousy. Just how the levels of jealousy is for each person is different, depending on how they love and trust of their partner.

To be sure, jealousy should make us more and improve ourselves so that the partners love us more, instead of bringing us into actions that harm to ourselves and others.