Jumat, 04 November 2011

How tow live after break up / divorce

Experiencing separation after so many years of living together in one household often creates pressure on couples going through divorce. Even the separation be either "good" though, still lead to negative emotions - though not for the spouse who leaves the post-divorce conflict.

If not regulated properly, it will disrupt the function and the stress of our daily lives. Divorce should be seen as the beginning of a new and better life, not the end of everything. The best way to lead a post-divorce stress is to keep trying to calm down, take a moment and then move forward to continue life.

Maybe some of these tips will help you with depression after a breakup:

1. Keep Your Health

There is no point in pensive silence in the house. Go to the gym and start exercising again. Exercise will improve your emotional state, eliminating tensions, anger and anxiety that comes upon.

2. Consider Your Emotional Needs

Ask the people closest support: family, parents or your closest friend. If necessary, Talk with people who had also just undergone a divorce. If your emotional problems could not be resolved by those closest to, get help from expert consultants.

3. Never Too Hard on Yourself

There are certain problems that can not be directly resolved in a short time. If you feel you've done your best, now it's time to surrender. You will feel depressed if kept thinking about the problems of this problem..

4. Spoil Yourself

No need to spoil your partner - unless you've found a new partner who is ready to spoil you. Do fun things that are difficult to do during a previous marriage: reading books, watching movies, hanging out with friends or on holiday to places which you want to visit.

5. Forget your expectations in the past

All hope that you aspired at the beginning of the marriage is over. There is no point in thinking about your plans in the past. Create new plans and gaze a brighter future.

6. Do not Make Decisions Rushing

You've just made a very big decision. Give yourself time for some time before making the next big decision. You could have married again or choose to be single, but think about it for a few months into the future.

7. Always Trying To Happy

It is no use to grieve. All have occurred and be assured that this way of life is best for you. Try to always have fun and avoid to stay away from you during this milieu. Keep having fun with the people closest to you.

8. Future Look Brighter

Eliminate your feelings of sadness and loss. Keep looking to the future and believe that your future will be much better after the divorce. Start a new relationship is more healthier and happier.

Hope this tips can be useful for all. Thanks :)

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