Jealousy is something that makes us feel uncomfortable. But why do we still feel jealous when we know that jealousy would hurt our feelings?

In fact, jealousy is a sense that a person is very valuable for us. However, excessive jealousy can make people do things that were not true. So jealous are often interpreted in a negative.

It is normal when we have a love relationship with someone then we will consider that the relationship is "just between us and our partners". Therefore, when there is the presence of a third party, moreover if that third person is close to our spouse (even just as friends), it appears that emotion called jealousy. The closer a person relationships, then jealousy would be increased. Just our true love that will determine how we will overcome the jealousy.
Usually people who have a selfish personality and people who love your spouse because lust is a person who has a great jealousy and explosive.

We as humans will never be able to avoid jealousy. Just how the levels of jealousy is for each person is different, depending on how they love and trust of their partner.

To be sure, jealousy should make us more and improve ourselves so that the partners love us more, instead of bringing us into actions that harm to ourselves and others.

If Your partner Jealous Easily

All couples, in the course of their love will certainly find situations jealous of each other. Jealousy can sometimes interfere with the relationship, but it can also more glue affection. As the saying goes, jealousy is a sign of love.

Feelings of jealousy is often creates discomfort. When under the sting jealousy is, anger arises mixed feelings of insecurity for relationship. Jealousy can arise when a person suddenly looks interested and our lovers flirting at a party, or anyone else he glanced across the table when you were having diner or lunch. Or, as the couple talked about the new co-workers with enthusiasm. But do not let it become blind jealousy .

Biologically, blind jealousy is a signal to pay attention to something that could potentially harm your relationship with him, so that you can do early preventative measures to protect a relationship. When viewed from this way, blind jealousy is the glue in the relationship and makes us aware of the danger, while others glance our spouse or loved by others.But, if all things when done to excess, of course the effect will be not good. as well as blind jealousy . Excessive blind jealousy can be dangerous, even able to drive themselves to do actions that are also not good.

When jealousy comes, do not be shy and hesitant to talk about to your partner. Do not immediately blame your partner.. Express your feelings and perceptions to your partner. When the couple was interested in other people, do not try to not care or consider it disloyal. However, introspection relationship because this is sure to happen at one time.

Understand that your partner blind jealousy feelings come from insecurity and fear they experienced. Facing the blind jealousy pair by taking the attitude of silence, or just blame it would make more anxious and upset. In fact, jealousy becomes more-so. Instead, try to listen and understand. Then, explain the problem well.

Communication with your partner, it is important to solve common problems in relationships. Set aside time to talk calmly with your partner.. Explain it all with a maturity and a cool head. Communication also gives a sense of yourself, trying to convince, whether in a relationship still exists honesty.

Find out why your partner. blind jealousy , is it because you see your partner to go with your friends without taking the spouse, or there's something else. make sure with your attitude and let your partner know your intentions only just to have fun with friends, not having an affair.
Being in a long-term commitment to make both parties need to be alert to 'signal blind jealousy ' over an object or condition which can cause serious thing. When used appropriately, jealousy can be used as a tool to protect the bond of love that last a lifetime

but if your partner blind jealousy continuously without any apparent reason, making it even more angry that led to harsh measures from your partner,, stay away from your partner slowly. Protecting the safety of self and soul and body is much more important.

or break your love with your partner, why should torture yourself with a couple who are excessively jealous,it will only make us hurt.

How to Stop Jealousy to Your Boyfriend's/girlfriend's ex?

It's a normal feeling when we have jealousy feeling to our boyfriend/girlfriend. Let's we call them our love partner. for me, who has long distance relationship,this jealousy feeling always appears and play with my mind. Sometimes i feel i am so stupid to be jealous with him because i know how much he loves me. And i feel more stupid again that the one whom i get jealous with is my boyfriend's ex.
But, finally i can deal with my jealosy. Here is some tips for you who has same feeling with me.




1. Tell to yourself constantly that you have your love partner now beside you,,not beside his/her ex. He/she always tells 'i love you'to you , not to his/her ex.

2. Spend more time with your love partner, because your jealousy actually comes because you know that they have been together for a long time but you both havent.

3. Talk with your love partner openly. Ask your love partner about how much he/she loves you. Ask him/her to answer it frankly, and you have to be ready to hear anything. Remember,whatever they will answer,you shouldn't be angry,because it's the truth. And knowing the truth is the best way to heal our jealousy. If their ex has something better than us,so we have to accept that and encourage us to be better than them.

Just remember one think,,jealousy always make us think abnormal. Always make us angry. Just try to handle it,and deal with it. Try to solve the problem and find the answer about why should you feel jealos with them? Once you get the answer, good or bad answer, you have to accept that,and make it as your lesson to change you as better person for your love partner.