All couples, in the course of their love will certainly find situations jealous of each other. Jealousy can sometimes interfere with the relationship, but it can also more glue affection. As the saying goes, jealousy is a sign of love.
Feelings of jealousy is often creates discomfort. When under the sting jealousy is, anger arises mixed feelings of insecurity for relationship. Jealousy can arise when a person suddenly looks interested and our lovers flirting at a party, or anyone else he glanced across the table when you were having diner or lunch. Or, as the couple talked about the new co-workers with enthusiasm. But do not let it become blind jealousy .
Biologically, blind jealousy is a signal to pay attention to something that could potentially harm your relationship with him, so that you can do early preventative measures to protect a relationship. When viewed from this way, blind jealousy is the glue in the relationship and makes us aware of the danger, while others glance our spouse or loved by others.But, if all things when done to excess, of course the effect will be not good. as well as blind jealousy . Excessive blind jealousy can be dangerous, even able to drive themselves to do actions that are also not good.
When jealousy comes, do not be shy and hesitant to talk about to your partner. Do not immediately blame your partner.. Express your feelings and perceptions to your partner. When the couple was interested in other people, do not try to not care or consider it disloyal. However, introspection relationship because this is sure to happen at one time.
Understand that your partner blind jealousy feelings come from insecurity and fear they experienced. Facing the blind jealousy pair by taking the attitude of silence, or just blame it would make more anxious and upset. In fact, jealousy becomes more-so. Instead, try to listen and understand. Then, explain the problem well.
Communication with your partner, it is important to solve common problems in relationships. Set aside time to talk calmly with your partner.. Explain it all with a maturity and a cool head. Communication also gives a sense of yourself, trying to convince, whether in a relationship still exists honesty.
Find out why your partner. blind jealousy , is it because you see your partner to go with your friends without taking the spouse, or there's something else. make sure with your attitude and let your partner know your intentions only just to have fun with friends, not having an affair.
Being in a long-term commitment to make both parties need to be alert to 'signal blind jealousy ' over an object or condition which can cause serious thing. When used appropriately, jealousy can be used as a tool to protect the bond of love that last a lifetime
but if your partner blind jealousy continuously without any apparent reason, making it even more angry that led to harsh measures from your partner,, stay away from your partner slowly. Protecting the safety of self and soul and body is much more important.
or break your love with your partner, why should torture yourself with a couple who are excessively jealous,it will only make us hurt.
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