Perhaps you are one of those people who have a possessive partner? That is those with a fear of loss and an excessive sense of belonging to the couple. It would not be a problem as long as you understand him and can control the properties of the possessive. Generally people in this category tend to be possessive is always sprinkled with feelings of anxiety and excessive suspicion their partner.
In a relationship they always feel uncomfortable, is often seized with jealousy and always felt like needed by their partners. Someone who can not control the possessive nature will increasingly lead to violent behavior on their partners, such as slapping, grabbing, and others. In fact, he will begin to intimidate and suppress their partners so afraid of him. So that the partner would be easy to set up at will. Worse, if it turns out their partners was not aware that he had a possessive nature, will often lead to fights and finally separation. Honey is not it? Maybe he is a our soulmate, but as a result we do not understand the nature of our partner, braided sweet like honey that has been woven, it just shattered.
There are a few tips you may have to apply in the face of your partner's possessive nature:
1. Try giving a little more attention on the couple, even if you're a woman (do not be afraid to say aggressive). Because then your partner will feel comfortable and not always seized with suspicion. For example: always proclaim your presence or activities of your time. No need to phone, send sms is enough.
2. Never bring up the past pertaining to my ex-girlfriend, or even comparing. It should all be avoided!
3. Try to be a good listener when he is angry or sad.
4. Try to be more patient.
Well, if all the tips that did not work, what can I say ... Separated is the best way. But many facts that say that break up with a possessive partner is very difficult, because he will try to get your back and not to be outdone, moreover if you are the person who break him up.
So ... beware ...
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