Rabu, 07 September 2011

Tips To Avoid The Broken Heart

Heartbreak is one of the common risks in the relationship. Of course no one likes a broken heart, although sometimes it must happen.

If it should happen to you, do not be afraid to try and keep trying to find true love. Try to continue to find it.

Here are some suggestions that you avoid a broken heart:

1. Knowing your position
If you do not know where and how your position in a relationship, this would make the relationship becomes uncertain and unstable.

You will begin to doubt themselves and fear will ruin the relationship.
Began to read the situation and be yourself.

2. Do not play
No one is happy to depressed psychologically so try not play the relationship. This is a way of convincing to have a good relationship.

If you are thinking of "playing around", you will not get respect from anyone, so for what you think about the relationship if only to be mocked?

3. Honest and candid
Honest about everything and expects the same from your partner is a point of a relationship.

So stop lying constantly or make excuses. If it feels difficult to part with someone you care about, it's better to hurt now than later if the lover does not mean it loves you.

In the long run, a lie will destroy a relationship.

4. Looking for a second chance when needed
If you know the person is not suitable for you, stop seeing them, unless you give them a chance to change.

You may give your time and help him to change. But if he does not
shows the changes, you should start looking for someone who is truly fit for you

5. Relationships mean compromise
No one is always in the wrong side or vice versa.

A relationship can work well depending on both parties and the sharing of responsibilities. If you find yourself more sacrifice in a relationship than your partner, be wise to pay attention and communicate the relationship.

Practice a balanced two-way communication. You both can be grown in
a relationship if each wanted to learn to compromise and yield to each other.

6. Do not force yourself to fall in love
Love is a natural process, so the process of loving someone else, should occur if there is a feeling of acceptance by the people we love who we love.

That is, the position of the heart that loves, would come from two directions. When love comes only from one side only, then love will walk with a sense of necessity. We never force yourself out of love.


Regarding Broken Heart, a friend advised:
Do not conquer her, but conquered his heart. Test the heart ...
If his heart in your heart and your heart in his heart, he who wants to hurt her own

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