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Tips To Handle Your Angryness

Anger is one emotion that we have and is a
very human response. But this can not be
used as an excuse to maintain unhealthy
habits angry. There are some people who
have problems to control these emotions,
and often at the expense of others who are not supposed to accept their anger.

We can not deny our feelings when feeling
angry because of some things, but we can
control and to control our anger so we do
not regret later on. Because in a state of
anger, people can say or do things that are
very excessive and may not make sense, not infrequently also can be fatal.
Then how we can overcome this anger?



Consider the following 10 tips:
1. One
important key to overcoming anger is to
identify or recognize the root causes of
problems or the object of your anger. Many
people who have a chronic struggle with anger, never even really sure about what
makes them angry. When you identify the
cause of your anger, you can start dealing
with it.

2. One of the goals of one's anger can be is
to attract the attention of others to
themselves. They often feel that negative
attention is better than no attention at all. If
you do not feel loved or needed, this can be
the root cause of your anger.

3. Accept the fact that most things in this world are beyond your control. If you try to
control or to control your family, your
friends, or situations around you on an
ongoing basis, obviously you will feel
frustrated.

4. The root of your anger might be due to a
lack of forgiveness. If you do not ever
condone or forgive people who have hurt
you, you're trapped in an invisible trap that
will slowly destroy yourself.

5. Many people who mastered anger turns
to hate themselves. Hatred of self which is
the root of why they quickly over react to
certain words or deeds mean a specific or
particular situation.
You have to know yourself, probably hate it
came from the attitude or behavior or
words that you received in the past, then
take the decision to forgive and instill the
truth in you that you should have to love
yourself because you are precious in the eyes of God. In addition, you may need to
learn some ability to control your emotions
in a positive way.

6. You may be angry because things are
which ever done by your family or your friends in
the past, maybe even decades ago. It is not
impossible, even absolutely necessary, to
overcome this anger and keep going with
your life, but you should take the time to identify the root of your problem and
choose to forgive those who have hurt you.

7. In some cases, there is some physical
cause for anger logical. If you suspect that
your problem relates to a chemical
imbalance in your body, it would be better if
you consult a qualified psychiatrist

8. In principle the truth, no one really "can make you angry", even if they provoke you
to anger. You can control and controlling
your response to people and various
situations. Position control is in your hands,
not in their hands.

Ever get angry? Fair ... But it's not fair if we let anger be sustainable without
ever followed up ...

So, handle your angryness,,,^_^,,,

Thanks for reading..

Let's Do Jogging!

Today is my first day doing jogging.Some years ago when i was in college,i always did that. But,after I have my job,I become lazy to do it. And today i decided to start it again.So, I woke up early in the morning and prepared my sport shoes.

I choose jogging as my way to get healthy body because it is not only a simple exercise,but also it's very helpful for our body. But, if you dont do it properly,it can hurt you. Here are some tips so you can get more benefit in doing jogging:


1. Proper Footwear.
When you light exercise
such as running or jogging, the most
important things you should consider is
footwear. Make sure you wear shoes and
athletic socks. Ideally, use running shoes
that fit, fit, and conveniently installed on your feet, and replace your shoes when it is
damaged.

2. Notice Track Jogging Carefully. Make sure
you pay attention to routes and jogging
track conditions to avoid tripping and other
injuries. Stay away from steep climbs,
rocky surface, or which have a lot of
obstacles such as vehicles and other traffic.

running on the route with the challenging terrain
is something that is fun, but you'll only hurt
yourself if you are not skilled in it. When
you are jogging or running on hilly terrain,
knee and foot joints of the feet will get great
pressure, therefore, you should start this activity by running a flat field and then add
the weight of pressure on your training.

3. Heating And Stretching.
When running or
jogging, for the first heating, warm up and
do it with ease. Do not run full speed, do not
stop suddenly. When you will stop, reduce speed
gradually, then you stop. Start slowly, and
end too slowly in order to avoid your muscles not to be shocked. Stretch muscles to cool a hot body
condition.

You need to know what is the advantage of doing jogging?

1. Based on the research, a woman who
likes to jog, they can get the advantages like: fat
burning, stress relief, and will look more
attractive.

2. Another advantage of jogging is
detoxification. If you run regularly, you will
get a 40% chance to live longer than other
people of your age, by getting rid of the risk of
diabetes, and cleanse your body of cancer possibility.

3. If you feel that jogging is for your body, then you need to remember that
jogging can help you to release endorphins,
hormones that can cause a 'feel happy in
yourself'. And jogging can be calculated as a
meditation similar to all the things which make you calm down.

So,happy jogging,,,^_^,,

Tips to have durable and long lasting love

we always dreamed of having a lasting
relationship. I'll give some tips to achieve
your desire for that:



1. Be honest
If there is something you dont like about your partner,just say it openly. You should say it when you are both alone.Discuss it carefully. Even it hurts,but it just for a while. It's better than you hold it in your heart,and then it will make you fight each other.

2. Be yourself
Do not ever think to change yourself for your partner. be yourself is the best thing. The nature and
appearance of you who make your partner loves you.

3. Be sincere
do not ever expect him back what you already gave.

4. dont hide anything from your partner
You don't have to lie about your friends to your partner.Tell to your partner with whom you ussually spend your time with.This will make your partner feels comfort and not worried to think where are you whole the time.

5. say sorry
Forgiveness has limitation. But,as human, we have to say sorry for our mistake and we also have to forgive our partne's mistake too.

6. Surprised your partner
Do not hesitate to give your partner something to surprise him/her. Buy something, and give it to him/her suddenly. Your partner must be love you more.

7. Care
Care to your partner. Always be with him/her anytime he/she needs you.

8. Family
Try to get closer with your partner's family. And take your partner to your family too.

9. Dont be posessif
It's really sucks to see your partner along
with others, chatting, laughing, etc.. But the
possessive attitude will cause your partner
to feel the eyes of surveillance by you, and
it will stretch your relationship.

10. Respect Privacy.
Although you and your
partner are open for anything, but not all things can be discussed together. Respect her/his privacy as
well. What we need to know and what we
should not interfere.

Hope your love relationship will be lasting forever. Thanks for reading
,,,^_^,,,

Tips to deal with you unconfidence

Do you ever feel not confidence?
Here are some tips to deal with your unconfidence :



1. Remind yourself of your talents and traits
that make you proud of yourself. Imagine
yourself as someone who is interesting and
necessary. Other people are generally
interested in someone who has a positive
outlook.

2. Do activities. u can go to gym,play music,learning foreign language,etc. Expert in a field will increase yourself confidence.

3. Do not compare yourself with others. You
will always find someone else who is more
slender, younger, smarter, or more sexy.
In addition, to establish a sustainable
friendship and mutual love, you do not have
to be pretty or handsome or rich.

4. Do something that makes you feel special.
Indulge yourself with delicious food, set attractive home design,or your bedroom,doing other fun activities. Find the activity that please yourself in your lonely time.

5. Change your style. Change the way your dressing with trendy style that you always avoid. Change your image can affect people's feelings towards you.

6. Always keep smilling and friendly to all people around you.

7. Giving a compliment. People are hungry for
praise. And almost all the credit can evoke a
warm response.

8. Be more relaxed. Relax,
smile, and think positively about yourself.

God has created us with our own plus and minus. Nobody's perfect. So, be proud of yourself,,^_^,,,

tips to lose your weight

Many people have problem with obesity. this problem make them dont have any confidence. That's why they always try to reduce their weight.

There are many ways that they have been tried. Like using natural materials,drugs,exercises just to lose their weight.




Here i will try to write some tips about how to lose your weight:

1. Drink plain water
Drinking plain water is a simple way to lose your weight. Do you know why? By drinking the plain water at least 2 litres a day will help your metabolic processes in the body to convert food into
energy needed. Here the water also serves
as fuel to drive the reaction the body's metabolism. So if you do not drink water,
then you can not burn calories.

2. Doing excercises regularly and anytime.
Yes,to lose your weight,you have to move your body. Do excercise regularly and anytime your body feels very fit. Doing excercise is not only in the morning,but you can also do that at afternoo or nite. And you have to move your body anytime,just like in your middle of your working,in the middle when you watch TV,etc. The more you move your body,the more callories will be burnt from your body.

3. Food
From some research on foods,there are some foods that can help
you lose weight, experts have said that
t here are some foods that are proven as a
useful food to lose weight. Food that is a
fruit wine, sardines, fruit squash, eating
beef and drinking green tea.

4. Dont drink alcohol
there is perception that alcohol in the form of taste and relaxation
effect. But that is not well recognized is that drinking alcohol can also be caused by thirst
and hunger. Maintaining order not to thirst
and not go to a bar or restaurant when
feeling hungry can suppress the amount of
your alcohol consumption.

5. Take your breakfast
Breakfast is often
not trusted as a way to lose weight, but it
turns out breakfast too useful to lose
weight. If your breakfast in the morning,
you can reduce your consumption of lunch.
Quite a banana, yogurt, cereal, bread and other snacks for containing lots of fiber and
protein will make you feel full until lunch
time arrived.

If you like to drink tea, mild green tea every day can help burn about 70 calories
more a day.

If you like to drink milk, you
should not select the full cream. Please
consumption of low fat milk beverage.

Notes:
1. Do not eat more than at 7 pm.

2. Do not eat
preserved / canned vegetables. Just consume a lot fresh fruits and vegetables.

3. Every morning after we wake
up, drink a glass of water plus 1 piece of lime juice.

4. Breakfast can only be the fruit /
oatmeal.

Those are some tips for your diet. Hope it's usefull for us.

Happy diet and lose your weight
..^_^..

Tips to Prevent Cancer

These days, especially in developed
countries, there are many people who implement
healthy life style behaviors in line with the
movement of cancer prevention.



Here are following some steps which are recommended to prevent cancer:

1. Eat plenty of vegetables, fruits, whole grains, such as tempeh, tofu and foods that contain lots of fiber. At least one or two times a day to consume green vegetables and fruits.

2. Avoid excessive weight gain or obesity.
Weigh your weight 1 time a week. Research
shows, due to obesity, the risk of cancer is
greater in particular breast cancer, uterus,
colon, stomach, kidney, and gallbladder.

3.Reduce to eat too much fried food ,high protein and high fat and offal.

4. Limit yourself to eat foods that are processed with high temperature and long time or with certain
treatment that can cause food prokarsinogen like marinated, smoked,baked, roasted until the exit charcoal (charred). Remember that boiled foods is the best.

5. Be careful with the use of artificial sweeteners, food dyes and preservatives are excessive. The best food is fresh food.

6. keep the food clean, diverse, and free of substances of environmental contamination.

7. Do not drink too much baverages which contain alcohol and do not smoking.

8. Doing physical activity by exercising regularly,
accompanied by mental and spiritual health
is an integral part in cancer prevention.

Hope this tips can be usefull for us.
Thanks for reading and keep heatlhy!

Tomato For your Health

Tomato Seeds Prevent Heart Disease

Do you like to drink tomato juice but often discard
the seeds?
Perhaps after reading this article that habit must be changed.
Based on research conducted by the Rowett Research Institute in Scotland, found that
liquid or slippery yellow jelly around
tomato seeds found containing compound or
mixture of ingredients that works to
fight strokes and heart disease.
When you drink tomato juice without removing the seeds, it means you have reduced the risk of blood clots around 72 percent, even you are able to avoid heart disease!

So..keep your healtiness...^_^,,,

How to love and care someone special in your life

Love is so beautiful. We should take care our love to keep it remains beautiful. Here are some tips to show to your love to your partner.



1. Love your partner with the heart, not with
feelings. If you put your relationship based
on feelings, then you will fail because the
feeling can constantly changing from time to
during.
2. Love your partner as they are. In the world there are nearly 6 billion people to 6 billion personality.
Do not ever think of changing anything
about them because once you change, you
will be forever changed them. Of course you
remember, you are hooked on it because they are they. Thus, there is no reason for you to change them to be someone else.
3. Loved him wholeheartedly. "your partner has
sacrificed much for you. With the advantage
was with them, they had the opportunity to
forge a relationship with someone who is
perfect but for the sake of love, they have
chosen you. So, do not try to fool the supremacy of your partner's love.
4. Respect their decision and stand. do not create a reason to love you, because you will just get love by 'my sincere sympathy' but not the heart.
5. Convince yourself you are going to
feature your partner. your partner is the only one in this world and do not expect perfection from them because they're pretty much perfect.
6. Believe in your partner.
Always think well on it if we also want your partner to be so. Make sure you are always putting yourself in position before doing anything.
7. Fulfilling Promises
Do not promise to love your partner forever because forever for you may end tomorrow, but promise to love them as if every day was the last day for both of you.
8. Loving your partner is like giving your heart to
be hurt them, but trust is important. Believe
your partner, then they would give you their body and soul
9. Do not leave your partner without a reason. they were not only disappointed and would cry
and then move on as usual, but you have to know that their soul will die slowly because of dissapoinment.
10. Do not be proud of yourself quickly.
Winning the hearts is not an absolute
success, but the award can only get when
you succeed to love your partner until the end of
life.

you have to realized, your partner chosed you because she/he believes
that you are an honest and will keep your
promises. You have struggled and tried to win her/his love, that's why you have to keep give your love in any circumstances.

Thanks for reading. Hope it's useful for us.,,^_^,,,

signals of breaking up love relationship

Do you feel something wrong with your love relationship? Don't you know that according to the survey,about 96% of breaking up,it always begin from the girl side. The girl always breaks you up, even after that, she regrets that,and hopes that she can turn the time back.



Actually,we can feel the signal when our love relationship is going to break up. But we always ignore that.whereas,if we can solve the problem in our relationship soon,there is a big chance to safe the relationship.

Here are some signals of breaking up:

1. there is no proposal from the boyfriend to get married, whereas you both have very looongg relationship,maybe for about more than 5 years.

2. Your partner starts to hide secret from you.

3. Your partner likes to spend the time alone or with his/her friends than to be with you.

4. What is your partner says is different with what he/she does.

5. Your partners starts to forget your both special days. Like your birthday,your anniversary day,etc.

6. Your partner is easy to get upset,angry and even fight you just for a small problem.

7. Suddenly your partner gives you overload attention. They do that just to cover their guilty because they want to break you up.

What i have written above is just a few signals.I believe there are more signals which you can feel by your own instuition. Decide what is the best for you. Is it worth or not to safe your relationship? So, before you get hurt,you have to break your partner up first when you see those signals and your instuition says that you should do that.

Just enjoy your life and thanks for reading..^_^,,

Be careful when you always feel tired!

i just wana share about this article to let you know about the possibility of your tiredness.
The most common complaint I hear is that people always feel tired. There are many causes of chronic tiredness. Sometimes it's obvious like not getting enough sleep, but other times it can be due to an underlying health issue.Chronic tiredness can be a frustrating condition. There usually isn't a simple solution to it and any medical tests are likely to come back 'normal'.



One reason for chronic tiredness is a problem with liver function. In this article I'm going to explore liver problems and how they could cause chronic tiredness.
Common symptoms of liver problems include:
· Feel tired and unrefreshed when you wake up
· Energy levels fluctuate throughout the day, with your tiredness becoming worse around mid-morning and/or mid-afternoon
· Difficulty losing weight
· Allergies and intolerances to foods that are worsening as time goes on
· Reactions to many chemicals including cleaning products, petrol, paint, perfumes, bleaches, etc.
· Problems digesting fatty/creamy/oily foods. They can make you feel unwell, nauseous or cause heart burn and reflux
· A yellowish tinge to the skin, eyes and palms of the hands
· Reactions to drugs, in particular headache tablets, antibiotics and anti-histamines
· An intolerance to alcohol
· Frequent headaches and bad breath
· Skin problems such as acne, eczema, psoriasis, general rashes, itchy skin
The liver has many roles within our body and is the hardest working organ we have. If you have a liver problem, there are two main reasons that you may experience chronic tiredness.
Firstly, the liver is our main detoxification organ and it does this three ways.
1. During Phase 1 and 2 detoxification processes, it coordinates the excretion of most wastes and toxins through the four main elimination pathways - kidneys, skin, bowels and lungs. In order to this, it may have to convert fat soluble toxins into a water soluble form.
2. Along with the kidneys, it is continuously filtering and cleansing the blood.
3. It produces bile, one of the main carriers of toxins out of the body.
If the liver becomes congested – either from a high level of toxins in the body or because bile flow is blocked or reduced – there will be a build-up of wastes and toxins in the blood stream. This can pollute the body's fluids and tissues and place an extra burden on the other eliminative organs. This situation will commonly lead to an increase in general tiredness and sluggishness as well as a number of other symptoms (see list above). This is why people who follow a detoxification programme often experience an improvement in their energy; their skin clears and they lose weight.
Secondly, the liver is involved in carbohydrate metabolism. It's especially important in maintaining a normal blood glucose level. When blood glucose levels are low, the liver can break down glycogen (the glucose stored in muscle and liver cells) into glucose and release it into the bloodstream for instant energy. The liver can also convert proteins and fatty acids into energy. Therefore, if the liver's function is compromised your blood sugar will fluctuate leading to episodic tiredness, especially around mid-morning and/or mid-afternoon.
Our liver needs to be cared for and supported with a healthy diet. Certain herbal medicine, amino acids, foods and supplements can protect and regenerate the liver back to health. But remember - it's always easier to prevent something going wrong than to fix it after it's broken.
Please note: The information in this article is not intended to take the place of a personal relationship with a qualified health practitioner nor is it intended as medical advice.
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Tips and Tricks to Write Good CV

As we know, CV is a document which contains some information about why are you qualified for a such a work , your last education,your previous experience and interests.

CV is not only a short information about us but also a clear information about our last job performance.

Here are some tips how to make your succint CV.

1. When you make the profile about you, you have to make it clearly,especially for : the job that you want,and why you are qualified.
I believe if you write your profile so clear, the recruiter will know what you are looking for and put you in the first file person which will be hired.

2. The first thing which recruiter will see actually is your last job and how was your last performance in it. if you worked somewhere for a short time then make the story relevant as to why or consider omitting some jobs altogether. Maybe include one line with the dates and mention what happened, e.g. temping role, or went travelling between these dates etc.

3. Your last education.

4. Others
If you have any qualifications just like training course or anything which make you more valuable, dont forget to put it there too.

5. Interests.
Tell them about your hobby. And it's better if you include what you have been achieved in your hobby. Have you ever won something, or followed any championship,etc.

That's all the tips to make good CV. Just remember, to get a job now is very difficult because of many competitors day by day. But by making good CV,we will make the first impression to the recruiter so we can get the job that we need.

good luck,all!

Traditional Treatment for Hemorroid Patient

Do you have hemorroids? Is it very disturbing,isn't it?

My father also ever had this sickness. He always got hurt everytime he went to toilet. But, he has a friend who has traditional recipe to cure that. Here is the tips to cure hemorroids:
1. Take a clove of garlic, then grater it.
2. Then after it has been gratered, take a plastic to cover your fore finger.
3. Next, put your fore finger in the gratered garlic. Averaged it around your fore finger.
4. After that,put half of your fore finger into your anus.
At the beginning,you will feel so hot on your anus. But it just temporary(about 2 minutes). Do this treatment every 3 days. Soon you will feel the result as my father has. Now he never has bleeding again everytime he goes to toilet. Just try it, and you wont feel afraid to go to toilet again.

the lyrics of song i like the most

here are the lyrics of romantic songs which i like the most...

Enrique Iglesias lyrics - Why Not Me lirik :
Escaping nights without you with shadows on the wall
My mind is running wild tryin hard not to fall
You told me that you love me but say I’m just a friend
my heart is broken up into pieces

Cos i know i’ll never free my soul
it’s trapped between true love and being alone
When my eyes are closed the greatest story told
I woke and my dreams are shattered here on the floor

Why oh why tell me why not me
Why oh why we were meant to be
Baby i know i could be all you need
Why oh why oh why

I wanna love you
if you only knew how much i love you
So why not me

The day after tomorrow I’ll still be around
To catch you when you fall and ever let you down
you say that we’re forever our love will never end
I’ve tried to come up but it’s drowning me to know
you’ll never feel my soul
It’s trapped between true love and being alone
when my eyes are closed the greatest story told
i woke and my dreams are shattered here on the floor

Tell me baby why oh why tell me why not me
Why oh why we were meant to be
Baby i know i could be all you need
why oh why oh why

I wanna love you
if you only knew how much i love you
So why not me

You won’t ever know
How far we can go
You won’t ever know
How far we can go (go)

Why oh why tell me why not me
why oh why we were meant to be
Baby I know I could be all you need
Why oh why oh why

Why oh why tell me why not me
Why oh why we were meant to be
Baby I know I could be all you need
Why oh why oh why oh why

I wanna love you
If you only knew how much I love you
so why not me
(why not me, why not me)

2. Hero Lyrics – Enrique Iglesias

(Whispered) Let me be your hero

Would you dance if I asked you to dance?
Would you run and never look back
Would you cry if you saw me crying
Would you save my soul tonight?


Would you tremble if I touched your lips?
Would you laugh oh please tell me these
Now would you die for the one you love?
Hold me in your arms tonight?

I can be you hero baby
I can kiss away the pain
I will stand by you forever
You can take my breath away

Would you swear that you’ll always be mine?
Would you lie would you run away
Am I in to deep?
Have I lost my mind?
I don’t care you’re here tonight

I just want to hold you
Am I in too deep?
Have I lost my mind?
Well I don’t care you’re here tonight

You can take my breath my breath away
I can be your hero

(i like this song cos i'm waiting my hero,,^_^,,)

3. Last nite on earth - Green Day

I text a postcard, sent to you
Did it go through?
Sending all my love to you.
You are the moonlight of my life every night
Giving all my love to you
My beating heart belongs to you
I walked for miles til I found you
I'm here to honor you
If I lose everything in the fire
I'm sending all my love to you.
With every breath that I am worth
Here on earth
I'm sending all my love to you.
So if you dare to second guess
you can rest assured
That all my love's for you
My beating heart belongs to you
I walked for miles til I found you
I'm here to honor you
If I lose everything in the fire
I'm sending all my love to you.
My beating heart belongs to you
I walked for miles til I found you
I'm here to honor you
If I lose everything in the fire
Did I ever make it through?

Those songs always make me close my eyes when i'm listening it.

How to Stop Jealousy to Your Boyfriend's/girlfriend's ex?

It's a normal feeling when we have jealousy feeling to our boyfriend/girlfriend. Let's we call them our love partner. for me, who has long distance relationship,this jealousy feeling always appears and play with my mind. Sometimes i feel i am so stupid to be jealous with him because i know how much he loves me. And i feel more stupid again that the one whom i get jealous with is my boyfriend's ex.
But, finally i can deal with my jealosy. Here is some tips for you who has same feeling with me.




1. Tell to yourself constantly that you have your love partner now beside you,,not beside his/her ex. He/she always tells 'i love you'to you , not to his/her ex.

2. Spend more time with your love partner, because your jealousy actually comes because you know that they have been together for a long time but you both havent.

3. Talk with your love partner openly. Ask your love partner about how much he/she loves you. Ask him/her to answer it frankly, and you have to be ready to hear anything. Remember,whatever they will answer,you shouldn't be angry,because it's the truth. And knowing the truth is the best way to heal our jealousy. If their ex has something better than us,so we have to accept that and encourage us to be better than them.

Just remember one think,,jealousy always make us think abnormal. Always make us angry. Just try to handle it,and deal with it. Try to solve the problem and find the answer about why should you feel jealos with them? Once you get the answer, good or bad answer, you have to accept that,and make it as your lesson to change you as better person for your love partner.

tips and tricks to make your life better

Everyone want to improve themself. But it just few of them who really do the right action. Here is some tips for you who want to manage your life to be better than before.

1. Make a list
listing about what you should do and make check mark after you did it will make better feeling. U can feel satisfied when you see that you can finish something as you want.

2. Don't be pesimistic. Just think that you can! Then u will get the goal.

3. Take break for sometimes when you feel bored. Juts go outside. Take fresh air. enjoy everything around you. After 10 minutes,then go back again to your work. You will be amazing to see how the breaking time will improve your working.

4. Give appreciation to yourself. When you succeed doing something, give yourself a reward. Have fun and enjoy the time for sometime.
But if you fail doing something, dont blame yourself. Never give up,just try and try again.

5. thanksfull and gratefull. Take a bit of time out each day to be thankful and grateful for what you’ve got and what you have achieved. You’ll be amazed at how much better it makes you feel.

6. Look for the good side, not the bad side. By turning this around and seeing and seeking the good around them, they change their mindset, opening them up to achievement.

That's all some tips to motivate yourself better. I hope this writing will be usefull for us.

Thanks for reading.

How to Safe Your Marriage Life?

before this posting,i have written about divorce is seldom right answer. But actually, before we do that,we have to think again and again to safe our marriage's life. Here some advices which maybe useful for us.

How to Repair A Marriage - Critical Facts You Must Go Through Here And Now



Using external help to heal your marriage is a brilliant idea. Generally if we are in a collapsing marriage, we cannot deliberate correctly - and desire external help to repair our relationships. Not to worry - here is what you do!

1. Repairing Your Marriage Necessitates a Relaxed State of Mind

Generally that is the most difficult to do, yet the most effective if done. What generally happens is that the confusing feelings a person has causes him or her to do the wrong things, which put the relationship in an even worse state. So it goes into a self-perpetuating cycle. You could break this cycle and repair your relationship only if you stop all conduct and start to ease up and calm yourself!

2. How Have You Been Treating Your Spouse?

It is correct that if you don't pay enough attention to your person, don't make them understand that you admire them; it can cause them to be distant and harm the relationship, and even compel a separation. But the opposite puts the relationship in jeopardy likewise - your spouse can quickly get tired of your consistent attention. And this would mean that the feeling of "pay your spouse more attention" can cause to disastrous results!

This is the reason I said previously that you are to appraise how you were behaving towards your spouse. If you get to the deduction that your spouse feels ignored, you must prove him or her that you are stillvery much in love. But, if you assume you might have exaggerated this instead and leadd your spouse to be "sick of" your time, adore and attention; you must go the opposite way to heal a relationship.

3. Some External Help Will Do Well!

Something I found on the Net ended up being the very thing that rescued my own marriage. Such guides, if penciled by experts, can be extremely effective because they show you things you are maladjusted to discover yourself - because you are in the center of everything. There are quite a few things you must do to repair your marriage, and you need excellent advice for that!.
Learning how to repair a marriage can be a hard thing to do.



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Can Love destroy A Life!

Can Love Destroy A Life?

Author: CD Mohatta

The title of this article is a little shocking, Isn't it? Because no one can think of love and destruction together. But love does destroy. How? Let us examine.

There is a story of a prince in India. He was in great love with his wife and never wanted to be without her. One day, an enemy king attacked him, but the prince did not want to go out and fight. He did not want to be away from his princess. The princess realized this and she asked the prince to go out for a minute. After sometime, a maid brought the head of princess to the prince with the dying message of the princess. 'Let our love not destroy you. You are a prince and you must save your state from the enemies. I am giving up my life so that you can carry out your duties properly.' Does this small story tell us anything? What lessons can we draw from this? Love attracts with the strength that is incomparable.
Many of us are extremely talented. Our talent can create a big difference to the world. We can help the world fight poverty, injustice and produce a better life for all. But some of us fall in frenzied love. This love is all encompassing. This love takes over our life. We see nothing but our sweetheart everywhere. For us, all the other work becomes insignificant. We lose our focus and are centered on our love like a mad person. This eats away the vitals of our personality.

For a person in deep and fanatic love, nothing matters other than love. All other talents take a back seat and the only driver is love. This kind of love destroys. Love that could have been very inspiring, manages to destroy. This is the irony of love.

To save yourselves from such destruction, you must always keep a level headed approach towards everything. You must sit back and reflect. Find out if you are missing larger goals? Think about time management and thought management. Discuss this out with your sweetheart. He/She will surely help you in such a situation. One who loves you, wants you to grow. So discuss this. Think, reflect and make other goals equally important once again in life. Fall in love. Enjoy the bliss of love. But let that love not destroy your personality.




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I Just Want to Share

Just now I watched a news on TV about something funny. It made me laugh so much. I want to share about this to all of my friends but i wont tell you their name or their city.

That time i was laying on my sofa watching TV. Then I heard the TV newscaster told that there was a husband who wanted to divorce his wife. Do you know why? Let's see his reason..

Few months ago,he know his wife from one of the famous social networking. Then they fell in love each other. They arranged their meeting somewhere in mall. And after that meeting,their love getting stronger untill they want to get married.

So,the story continued..

They got married. Both of their family came and celebrated their marriage.

But after six months,the husband felt there was something wrong with his wife. Why? Because his wife was refused to be touched. And somehow,finally the husband found the reason.

She is male!

Yeah,,he married with a male...:-)

Can u believe that his fake wife could hide his id for 6 month!

that's why his husband wanted to divorce him,,hihihi,,

(I wrote this article without any intention. Just I want to say,,be careful if you have love relationship over the net. Try to find who is he or she clearly. Because many crime can be happend thru the net. Just be careful for your life.)

Gud nite all...^_^,,,