Broken heart, ough, it is so painful feeling. I also ever felt this feeling many times. The first think that I always do is crying in my room. And then there are many questions in my mind, why he did it to me? How could he! Couldn't he feel how much I love him and he is just dumped me!
Then I always think how, how to forget him?
Actually, now I have the answer for how to handle our broken heart. It is so simple way. It just needs our strong willingness.
Let me tell you how did I get this answer about how to handle the broken heart. Few years ago, I was in relationship with a boy. And we broke up. As I said before, I started my days with crying. I always locked myself in my room, and thinking it was my fault, because he left me. I thought I was not good for him, that's why he left me.
I have passed many days but the pain still remained in my heart. I have tried to keep busy myself by doing many activities and hang out with friends, but when I was alone, I remembered him again. His name was stucked in my mind. The more harder I wanted to forget him, the more difficult for me to forget his name.
Luckily, one day I met my ex on the street. Why I said luckily? Because I got the answer to cure my broken heart from this accidental meeting.
I saw him with a girl. They were look very happy. Sometimes he hold that girl. I thought she was her new girlfriend.
Suddenly, I realized something. Hey, what happen to me for all this time being? Where was I? See, my ex has already got a new girlfriend? And me? Stuck with his memory? He even didn't remember now!
So, I went home directly. And on that they, I know the answer how to handle our broken heart.
" We have to move on" that is the answer. If you cannot forget him/her, just remember this, have you ever think that when you are so sad about your ex, your ex is having fun there? Hang out with friends and he/she moves on the life without you?
If they he/she can do that, then why you are still here? Move on your life! Enjoy our life! Just remember one think, Life is just once in a time, don't waste your life to cry for someone who does not deserve to get your love. He/she leaves you not because you are not for him/her, but it is him/her who are not deserved.
Accept your situation from now that you are a single. By accepting your condition and what has happened to you, it will make you easier to move on. Your ex was the past. While we have to live for our present and future.
That's how to handle our broken heart. Good luck.
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